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May 02, 2007

Rites of Passage: Marking Our Movement from One Stage of Life to the Next

WalkaboutThe concept of rites of passage was first articulated by anthropologist Arnold van Gennep (1873-1957) in his book The Rites of Passage, first published in 1908.   In this seminal work, van Gennep subdivided rites of passage into three sub-categories:  rites of separation, transition rites, and rites of incorporation.  These rites might represent components of one overall rite of passage, or be given greater or lesser emphasis in specific rituals or ceremonies.  van Gennep writes:  ". . . although a complete scheme of rites of passage theoretically includes preliminal rites (rites of separation), liminal rites (rites of transition), and postliminal rites (rites of incorporation), in specific instances these three types are not always equally important or equally elaborated." (The Rites of Passage, p. 11).  Anthropologist Victor Turner took van Gennep's model and gave particular emphasis to the liminal rites, suggesting that after being separated from the society, but before being incorporated back into it, the person going through the rite of passage existed in a sort of "betwixt and between" state, a kind of limbo, where their identity was temporarily suspended.  The concept of rites of passage was perhaps given its best exposure to the public through Joseph Campbell's best-selling book The Hero with a Thousand Faces, which describes the journey of the hero crossing the threshold into the underworld to seek a great treasure or boon, and then returning back to society to share the newly acquired gift with others.  Much of the attention given to rites of passage over the years has focused on puberty rituals, particularly in Africa and Aboriginal Australia.  These rituals were often quite brutal in nature, requiring novices to endure starvation, mutilation, infestation, radiation (from the sun), and other insults, from which not every member survived.  In a way, it was a culture's system of "quality control," to ensure that those who were admitted to the adult role in that society had the specific attributes needed by the community (e.g. strength, endurance etc.).  In a broader sense, it was a way for a culture to bring its members from the dependent state of childhood to the independent state of adulthood where they could actively contribute to the community's wellbeing and continuity.  Although puberty rituals have been the focus of much of the discussion concerning rites of passage, the concept of rites of passage applies equally well to other ages and stages of life, including birth, marriage, and death.  In modern culture, rites of passage have generally gone through a process of disintegration, often only retaining traces of those elements that were once part of a full-bodied rite of passage.  One may see the remnants of ancient rituals in such things as fraternity hazings, high school graduation ceremonies, or debutante balls.  In some cases, religious or ethnic groups have sought to maintain and strengthen traditional rites of passage (e.g. the bar mitzvah or bat mitzvah, the quinceañera etc.), or to create new rites of passage to help their youthful members achieve maturity (this has been, for example, an important development in many African-American communities in the United States).  Because rites of passage are not often an integral part of contemporary society, people may decide to create their own rituals.  Sometimes this is done with a great deal of creativity and respect for tradition (for example, the Simchat Chochma or Joy of Wisdom Ceremony developed by Savina Teubel to celebrate her 60th birthday).  Othertimes, this is done on a very ad hoc and impromptu basis, especially in adolescence, by individuals who are unconsciously acting out certain elements of rites of passage (especially the separation and liminal phases), but not including an incorporation phase back into the society.   One sees this sort of thing in adolescents who engage in substance abuse, gang activity, risky sexual behaviors, or other forms of reckless endangerment.  The missing element in these cases is almost always the presence of mature individuals, themselves having passed the threshold into adulthood, who can help these adolescents make a safe journey across the great divide. For older individuals, the passage from one stage of development to the next phase (e.g. early adulthood to midlife),  may also occur in the unconscious, but have a better outcome by its being made conscious through active work in psychotherapy, the arts, or other forms of therapeutic or symbolic activity.  All in all, the concept of rites of passage is a useful one in comprehending the broad picture of the human life cycle.  It helps articulate the underlying psychological forces, and the overt socio-cultural forces, that help an individual make the transition from one stage of development to the next.

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    Thomas Armstrong, Ph.D. is the author of thirteen books including In Their Own Way, 7 Kinds of Smart, Awakening Your Child's Natural Genius, Multiple Intelligences in the Classroom, The Myth of the A.D.D. Child, and The Radiant Child. His books have been translated into 21 languages including Spanish, Hebrew, Chinese, Danish, and Russian. He has taught at several San Francisco Bay Area graduate schools including the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, and the California Institute of Integral Studies. He has written for Ladies Home Journal, Family Circle, Parenting (where he was a regularly featured columnist), The Journal of Transpersonal Psychology, and many other journals and periodicals. He has appeared on The Today Show, CBS This Morning, CNN, the BBC, and The Voice of America. Articles featuring his work have appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, USA Today, Investor's Business Daily, Good Housekeeping, Redbook, and hundreds of other magazines and newspapers. He has given over 800 keynotes, workshops, and lectures in 42 states and 16 countries. His clients have included Sesame Street, the Bureau of Indian Affairs, the Republic of Singapore, Hasbro Toys, and the European Council of International Schools. He is currently working on a novel about the disappearance of childhood. For more information about his work, go to www.thomasarmstrong.com.

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    Howard Gardner, Ph.D. The John H. and Elizabeth A. Hobbs Professor in Cognition and Education at the Harvard Graduate School of Education, author of Frames of Mind
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    Mary Pipher, Ph.D., author of Reviving Ophelia and Writing to Change the World
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    Ralph Metzner, Ph.D., author of Maps of Consciousness, co-founder of The Green Earth Foundation
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    John Kotre Ph.D., Emeritus Professor of Psychology, University of Michigan-Dearborn, co-author of Seasons of Life: The Dramatic Journey from Birth to Death (book and PSB television series)
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    Laura Huxley, widow of Aldous Huxley; founder of Children: Our Ultimate Investment; author of This Timeless Moment, and The Child of Your Dreams
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    Michael Murphy, co-founder of the Esalen Institute; author of The Future of the Body, The Life We Are Given, and God and the Evolving Universe
  • “The Human Odyssey provides readers with a fresh approach to developmental psychology. Dr. Armstrong has included a spiritual dimension of human growth that is lacking from most accounts but which is essential for a complete understanding of the human condition. It is a splendid, brilliant work.”
    Stanley Krippner, Ph.D., former president of the Association for Humanistic Psychology; author Personal Mythology: The Psychology of Your Evolving Self and co-editor, The Psychological Impact of War Trauma on Civilians: An International Perspective
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    George Leonard, described by Newsweek as “the granddaddy of the consciousness movement”; author of The Transformation, The Ultimate Athlete, and Mastery
  • “ . . . a wonderful and encyclopedic summary of human development.“
    Allan B. Chinen, M.D., Clinical Professor of Psychiatry, University of California, San Francisco; author of Once Upon a Mid-Life: Classic Stories and Mythic Tales to Illuminate the Middle Years and In the Ever After: Fairy Tales and the Second Half of Life
  • “I loved this book. What a vast terrain it covers! I enjoyed the way it wove into each developmental stage a rich array of materials from Greek myths, Martin Buber, psychology, rituals, spirituality, and so many wonderful stories. As people read this book, they will be much more aware of the different stages of life and how they impact all of us personally and collectively.”
    Barbara Findeisen, President, The Association for Pre- & Perinatal Psychology and Health; creator of the documentary film, The Journey to Be Born, featured on Oprah
  • “I very much enjoyed The Human Odyssey. Your breadth of sources is remarkable, and you have put them all together in a smooth and integrative way. I think it will be informative for people, and also inspiring for them to make their stages of life more meaningful . . . Overall, this is an impressive tour de force.”
    Arthur Hastings, Ph.D., Professor and Director, William James Center for Consciousness Studies, Institute of Transpersonal Psychology; Past President, Association of Transpersonal Psychology
  • “Thomas Armstrong is an original thinker whose perceptions broaden our understanding of children, education and society. In The Human Odyssey, Armstrong provides a comprehensive framework for human development with characteristic depth and optimism.”
    Peggy O'Mara, Editor and Publisher of Mothering Magazine
  • “A beautiful compilation of world wisdom. Well written and inspiring.”
    James Fadiman, Ph.D., Co-Founder, Institute for Transpersonal Psychology, Author, The Other Side of Haight
  • “Thomas Armstrong has written a brilliant, caring and beautiful book on the human lifecycle. Such an all-inclusive book is rare and adds a sense of the wholeness of life, into and beyond death, in the mere reading of it.”
    Stuart Sovatsky, PhD, author of Words From the Soul, Your Perfect Lips and Eros, Consciousness and Kundalini, and Co-President of the Association of Transpersonal Psychology.
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    Jan Hunt, author, The Natural Child: Parenting from the Heart; member of the board of directors of the Canadian Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children

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